Slap Me Harder, Sir

Ways in which to use, abuse, and (sometimes) soothe xx

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naughty-affection:

bettyblac:

Dear 69carpenter you chose to re blog the above picture and add the comment  ”Too Fat!” I just thought I would address you directly. My first response was to be angry, but I thought better of it. I am a plus size model/porn star. I am very proud of my body and my fat, so are many of my fans. There is room in the world for all kinds of people, not just ones who fit your beauty standards. You are entitled to like what you like, this much is true. But how about you just stick to appreciating the body types you prefer rather than trying to knock down people you don’t. The world has so much negativity in it, don’t be a part of creating more. 
Love 
Betty Blac

wonderful…..

naughty-affection:

bettyblac:

Dear 69carpenter you chose to re blog the above picture and add the comment  ”Too Fat!” I just thought I would address you directly. My first response was to be angry, but I thought better of it. I am a plus size model/porn star. I am very proud of my body and my fat, so are many of my fans. There is room in the world for all kinds of people, not just ones who fit your beauty standards. You are entitled to like what you like, this much is true. But how about you just stick to appreciating the body types you prefer rather than trying to knock down people you don’t. The world has so much negativity in it, don’t be a part of creating more. 

Love 

Betty Blac

wonderful…..

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I need more blogs to follow

mollishka:

Please like or reblog if you post:

  • bondage
  • bdsm
  • ropes/shibari/kinbaku
  • kink
  • fetish
  • d/s or d/s relationships
  • petplay
  • wax
  • sexy things
  • lolita or cyber or gothicy stuff/fashion
  • corsets/corseting/waist training
  • TMI or Jamie Campbell Bower
  • elves/LOTR
  • disney
  • or you just want me to check out your blog

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honne-tatemae:

skengggg:

idk what’s more of a turn off: when girls wear beanies or when they tie their hair up with a bandana like a maid

idk what’s more of a turn off: when guys think their personal preference should dictate a female’s choice of clothing or when they act like we should care

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allthehiddlefeels:

mindofgemini:

thisnoiseismusic:

Hi, there. I’m wearing a shirt that reads “Kill Me”. If you saw me at a party or on the street would you promptly murder me? What about if I had a few drinks? What if I was walking alone at night?I’m guessing that you wouldn’t if you’re a sane individual. The cops wouldn’t overlook your crime because of what I’m wearing because that’s silly. I wasn’t literally asking for you to kill me based on my choice of clothing. Who would take that defense seriously?
My friends wouldn’t blame me for being murdered and my killer would be behind bars almost instantly. So, why is it okay to rape someone because they’re wearing revealing clothes? Why does THEIR choice of clothing excuse THEIR attacker? It doesn’t. You’re silly if you think otherwise. The less guilt on the attacker. The more guilt on victim. Stop. Victim. Blaming.

Reblogging this again because it’s perfect.

This is just so perfect.

allthehiddlefeels:

mindofgemini:

thisnoiseismusic:

Hi, there.
I’m wearing a shirt that reads “Kill Me”.
If you saw me at a party or on the street would you promptly murder me?
What about if I had a few drinks? What if I was walking alone at night?
I’m guessing that you wouldn’t if you’re a sane individual.

The cops wouldn’t overlook your crime because of what I’m wearing because that’s silly. I wasn’t literally asking for you to kill me based on my choice of clothing. Who would take that defense seriously?

My friends wouldn’t blame me for being murdered and my killer would be behind bars almost instantly.

So, why is it okay to rape someone because they’re wearing revealing clothes? Why does THEIR choice of clothing excuse THEIR attacker?

It doesn’t. You’re silly if you think otherwise.
The less guilt on the attacker. The more guilt on victim.

Stop. Victim. Blaming.

Reblogging this again because it’s perfect.

This is just so perfect.

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